Our Child is the our beloved from god to us, god greatest gift to parents so that we educate and raise them for the better future, so that they can become useful human beings in the environment and society. Giving attention and affection for them in order to be better immediately provides a sense of security and comfort. Provide a good education and teach care for each other for every aspect for the future.
How in a good life can give good results starting from The Family, parents give example to children from inside the family in order to get results and become good person for the community in the future. At school children learn to understand the knowledge they gain from education in elementary school until they grown up the ordinances of writing, guide parents respect each other’s and share and many other things. the school is where they learn in the community how to give their best and respect others regardless of racial and inter-racial ethnicities.
In the midst of times like this much that we have experienced until we become parents, many horrible events that occur in the country such as the riots of May 98, sexual abuse and children abuse, todays children's who are increasingly doesn't have manner to elderly and many others. We will discuss the issue of child sexual abuse that makes children down syndrome with confident, worried and others who are their spiritual wounds. How to make parents take care of children in order to give good positive results to children so that they can develop well. The trauma that they feel and insecurity and comfort make them unstable. Because they don't understand the problems they face.
Sometimes we as parents do not know what is happening with our child outside or his association, the number of criminality that makes us anxious for their safety and comfort, children who got involved in sexual harassment from childhood, sometimes makes them think un-natural sometimes they can only silent, doesn't dare to tell the parents and lose the passion of life. Many things that can cause their mental health to fade so that as parents should give advice and keep them safe. How can give the best if the child gets sexually violent behavior, to help mentally and motivation they are wrong one of them through friendship and around neighborhood environment. don't let us as parents ignore the problem because it will affect until adulthood.
Sex is a "taboo" not a suitable thing for children what else we as an eastern cultural society, introducing sex for education is not a way out, but learning about what human beings mean and the function of our organs and reproduction, this is taught in school at basic level so that they understand about their own anatomy and keep the body also mind healthy. We must be able to provide an understanding of the function of their sexual organs, namely for reproduction, so that they protect themselves from sexual abuse and how they can resist and have knowledge of what violence and sexual harassment are.
Do not let our children become victims of sexual abuse, keep them out of the hands of evil hands until they can grow up and know the love of life they get we must take care of many things, how to educate and give their best until they grow up. This should be applied in the family especially so that they understand the meaning of themselves male or female that they will be in the future family and have their own future dream child that they will care for. Because all lessons and education come from the family do not let our children deviate from the family.
Become light to everyone and every aspect of life enlighment their life for the future generation
Family is the most important thing in life
